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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and three months. I am very much in love with her, but I have done things in the past which made me lose her trust. I never cheated on her, nor have I ever checked out any girl. I talked to this one girl only as a friend, and this girl I talked to lived far away and never once have I ever contemplated seeing myself with her. Even when me and this girl talked, all I ever talked about was my girlfriend, and my girlfriend thinks I cheated on her and that I want to be with that girl. But I stopped talking to her when my girlfriend told me to and she still thinks I'm talking to her. And then people joke around saying I cheated and she believes the lie I told her. I'm being honest, I know she had one very bad relationship before me, but how can I help her and show her I'm telling the truth? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 ok so she obviously has trust issues but this is not fair on you at the end of the day if your friendship with this other girl was pure platonic then your girlfriend doesnt have the right to tell you that you cant talk to her, you still have a life to lead as much as being in a relationship.
Ok so obviously she doesnt trust or believe you therefore there is not a lot you can do here to make her see that you are telling the truth tell her she is making a huge mistake in believing romours and that you never cheated on her or even flirted with another girl tell her that its the last time you are going to tell her this and that its up to her now because you cant keep fighting for something that you have not done wrong.
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