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writes:ok so i've been sleeping with the father of my child on and off after knowing that he has been sleeping with someone else. Sometimes i have to drag the truth out of him because i feel as if i need to know if he's sleeping with someone else. So recently the girl that he's been going back and forth with came out to be an liar something like himself! and now he's sleeping with her friend. At first I was happy about that because I know him and the other girl has no chance due to him fooling around behind her back with her friend but now im hurt about him messing with this girls friend, in the past he also tried to pursue my sisters best friend and she gave him oral sex and lied to me about it!!! He continues to text me saying that he misses me and that he loves me, and he wants to be this family man and part of me still misses him. Why? How do I shake this feeling? How do I let go and let him be apart of his child? I know that hes not right but Im gona always love em!What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the feedback, I find myself letting him go and then allow him to come right back in. We won't see or speak to each other for wks at a time and then he'll send these messages saying something that I would like to hear. I know that he's not good for me and deep down inside I know what I have to do. I have learned that intentions are good but are less valuable when you don't apply it. Thanks again
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 You need to change the message you are sending yourself, instead of saying Im gona always love em! Say, he is the father of my child and I will respect him for that but I do not have to accept his lieing or his cheating.
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