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writes:hii..i really need advice..please help me...i was in a relationship with a guy for past 1 and a half years...we both were serious about each other...in august i had a fight with him and in anger i wrote a message to him in which i put my entire anger out....though everything sorted out after a while...he has saved that text...last month he just said he wants to break up with me because he has read the text and feels bad about it...and he needs space and is very angry with me..he said he does not want me in his life right now...its been 1 month after the break up..i hab been following the no contact rule...after 30 days i sent him a text though he replied...but he still seemed to be hurt and did not wanted to talk further....i really love him and miss him...i know he loved me more than i did..but now he has just turned into a cold stone...what should i do..?? i know he is the right guy for me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your advice...i just wanted to tell you that when our fight was solved he was perfectly normal....but again he read the text...and broke up....
he is kind of sensitive...i really don't want let go of him...is there no way to effectively apologize...because i have apologized a lot at the time break up but no effect...
please help me...i don't want to loose him.....
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 If he was so right, then why did you send such a nasty text?
Use this as a lesson. Things said in anger should only be said, never written. Written words can be saved and reviewed/relived over and over and over. Words when said will be hurtful, but will fade with time.
He is moving on. I don't think he will be back to this relationship. If his feelings didn't change at all after a month then they aren't likely to change. My guess is that the text was more of an excuse. He's actually been thinking about getting out of your relationship for a while and that was something he could point to and not be the bad guy.
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