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writes:My boyfriend and I just broke up because he says I don't trust him..the reason I don't trust him is because he lies to me about the smallest things..we have a child together and my family lives cross country so I can't just move out quick..but then I don't want to because I love him, and right now we're not speaking to each other..not the first time I said I was moving out either, last time I swallowed my pride and told him I wanted to work it out with him..and this time I'm expecting him to do the same and stop me..but he isn't..his mom says he still loves me..how can I have trust for him when he lies to me? I know for a fact he hasn't cheated, he just lies, making my trust for him die..yet I'm the one he blames for the end of our relationship..what can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): Folks that lie can't be trusted... it's simple...
If he can't own his own shortcomings he can't admit that he's at fault. He's in denial, and as such you shouldn't worry about what he says.
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reader, Fernn  +, writes (27 October 2010):
tbh love its upto you but you need to make it clear to him that he needs to stop with the lies. when having a child together, moving out is a big step as it may spoil their relationship together. think whats best for you and the child. but if the lies carry on, you know he cant change so get rid!
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