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writes:My boyfriend says that i am sexy and he love my eyes....i want him to call me beautiful,cute why doesn't he? my friends say that when a boyfriend calls you sexy its because he just want you to get in your pants and he don't love you?..is it true? what does it mean when your boyfriend call you sexy? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): Sorry, when I said in the below response that "he only wants to have sex with her" I meant "he only wants to have sex with you" not your friend.
I wish we could edit our response on here
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 Sorry, when I said in the below response that "he only wants to have sex with her" I meant "he only wants to have sex with you" not your friend.
I wish we could edit our response on here.
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reader, Griffo +, writes (26 October 2010):
It's good to be cautious but not too overly cautious about this, otherwise it will effect your judgement on every man you meet and men find that incredibly unattractive and boring. Only he will know why he calls you sexy but I would not be too concerned about a couple of words.
Why don't you ask him this: Am I beautiful or sexy? if he says both then when he calls you sexy, he means both. If he says sexy then he's likely very horny around you (but that still doesn't mean that he just wants to get into your pants) he might want to get into your paints because he loves you and wants to take I to the next level. However boys at his age are very horny, but that's not to say he has no heartfelt feelings for you. Yor going to have to figure this out yourself but here is a few tips:
If he does romantic gestures like writing a love note or giving you flowers, chocolates, or gifts. This may include talking to your friends about how much he really likes you, holding your hand in public while going for a walk. These things indicate emotional connection and that he likes you in his heart because to do those things it takes alot of effort and usually people are smart enough to know of they are genuine and heartfelt by looking at the body language and actions of the significant other.
If you really want to you could get a friend to find out of one of his friends what is his feelings toward you really are (kind of like a spy) get her to see if he only wants to have sex with her. At his age, he will keep talking about dirty boy stuff around his mates and oneday he'll forget who's listening. but if he really likes you he may tell her how much he really likes you and that is where you will know. These are risky but do work.
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reader, Elainey  +, writes (26 October 2010):
It is just another compliment from you boyfriend. Honestly it is only words... Action speaks louder than words. Since he is your boyfriend you are the best to judge his actions
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): Interesting question. I use sexy as a term of a compliment for a lady esp if she turns me on...however, that doesnt necessarily mean I wanna get in her pants. Trust me.. I know all about getting in pants or lack thereof cause Im the nice guy who always effin finishes last. Dont read too far into his words, chances are at his age he cant find the right ones anyway lol but he will have good intention hopefully in saying them. Does he compliment your physique a lot? What about your personality? Those two things can help you figure out whether he wants just the skin or not.
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (26 October 2010):
Different words for different times.
Just because he called you sexy, doesn't mean he doesn't think you are beautiful too.
Don't assume he just wants to have sex with you because he called you sexy.
If he is a good guy then take being called sexy a compliment. He finds you attractive, that's a good thing - right?
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reader, dancergirl +, writes (26 October 2010):
 you never know your boyfriend could be shy of calling you something different to what he has always called you, i am sure he loves you, if you really want him to then just ask him, ask him to call you beautiful because you would be more reassured with it.
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reader, PLAYFUL  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 Girl sexy is a good thing its way better then beautiful and cute so love it and take it..xox
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