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writes:Please help me out,Im a junior in high-school and I go to an all girls school. One of my friends has the most amazing boyfriend, (from our brother school) who does everything imaginable for her, he cooks for her, he MADE her her birthday present with his bare hands, and he's just so smart and funny and an overall nice guy. Unfortunately he gets nothing back. His girlfriend, my friend, is so mean to him, she is a black hole of love. Probably the most she's ever done in their 10 months of dating is driven him around cause she just got a car, but she still doesnt do that very much. (They also haven't gotten very far if you know what i mean, but thats cause she's a good little church girl, but he's so sweet that he doesn't even mind!)I've talked to him before about all the shit he gets from her, and he's said he's definitely noticed and that its been making him pretty sad the past couple weeks. I really want to beat some sense into her and make her appreciate all the things he's done cause he's been under A LOT of stress lately and still wants to make her happy. But he really trusts me not to tell anyone the things he's told me cause he doesn't want anyone else to know he's been hurt.Recently, they had a big fight about how she didnt care about him (i didnt tell anyone i swear), and she starts crying about her problems (which she was sooo lying about cause she was fine when i saw her in school) so he, being the sweetheart he is naturally, asks if he could help and says nothing else matters but her. I can't believe how patient this guy is, He told me that he just wants the old her back, so that they can both be happy. Right now i think my friend is just being a self-absorbed bitch, and i cant stand to see this guy get trampled on by her. I think I'm in love with him... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi. THanks for the help so far. I'd like to point out the elephant in the room. I am a Female aged 16-17, I didnt realize there was an account logged on to this computer. Probably my brother.... Whoops
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi. THanks for the help so far. I'd like to point out the elephant in the room. I am a Female aged 16-17, I didnt realize there was an account logged on to this computer. Probably my brother.... Whoops
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): Hey there,unfortunetly theres not alot you can do as its his choice who he wants to be with. But maybe if you stay being a good friend and someone to talk to when he needs too, he might see through his gf and think he could do better. Dont be jelous, jelousy is ugly. Be the good friend and see what happens. You cant break them up he may resent you for it.Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): Let them sort it out for themselves....don't meddle in between.And think - do you actually want to be friends with such a girl? Doesn't seem to be a very nice person to hang out with.the guy himself will dump her...no one likes to be a punching bag...Try being a friend to the guy, but be careful...you won't want to complicate things or be a re - bound girl , do you?
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