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He's looking for excitement!

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Question - (26 October 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *lwayschanging writes:

I feel he is looking for excitement. how can i spice up our relationship or/and sex lives?

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A female reader, alwayschanging United States +, writes (1 November 2010):

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no we really don't role play. But maybe that would help :D we do different positions with sex and all but i want to mess around first, and get him excited and him get me excited you know? so we may try that. ill use my halloween costume ;) see if that kicks him into gear lol

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A male reader, mrvhappy United Kingdom +, writes (1 November 2010):

Have you tried dressing up/role play/?

Are you into fetish things & toys?

Do you go Commando...(I dont mean go around going HUP HUP and pointing a gun!! ;) )..if u did, and u whispered it sedutively in his ear....might excite him.

Who initates the sex?

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A female reader, alwayschanging United States +, writes (1 November 2010):

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well we have sex. We do just about everything. but he doesn't like Lacey things, and doesn't notice if i buy lingerie for him to see you know. i'm trying to find something that's different. something that will turn him on and just something different he will find exciting just looking for suggestions :D

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A male reader, mrvhappy United Kingdom +, writes (26 October 2010):

Hi,

You need to tell us what you guys are doing so that we can give you advice on spicing things up

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A male reader, slimfish New Zealand +, writes (26 October 2010):

slimfish agony auntyou need to tell us more here. are you already having sex or not. why are you not exiting enough for him now?.

there are lots of ways, one i remember all too well was for a new girlfriend to "accidently" drop a note as i picked her up from her parents home. it was as follows.

10 things to do tonight.

1-bath, with bath salts.

2-shave my pussy

3-put on my new black panties.

4- put on my new stockings and garter belt.

5-put on my new black dress

6- got to dinner at che bleu restaurant.

7-drink 3 double bourbons before dinner.

8-order lobster

9-go to pete's place.

10-show him how to make love to me.

its a night i will remember till i die!!!.

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