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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I recently met a guy (J) who at first I wasn't very attracted to but after getting to know him a little better I began to see something in him. My best guy friend (D, who I happen to live with, along with a few other people) has been hanging out with J a fair bit lately, no big. So, last night I had been drinking with a friend and we were feeling pretty good. I decided to go on msn and attemp to talk to this guy more. At first it was just real dumb stuff we talked about like how crazy my friend is and what each of us were doing etc; but then things changed. He told me D talked about me quite a bit with him. I asked what kinda stuff and he said that D had been telling him we were a lot alike. We kinda went into detail about it and this guy, J, is pretty much the guy version of me. D had mentioned to me before that J and I would get along well, and it's kinda looking like he was right. Me and J chatted for 4 hours, until both of us were so tired we could barely type. It took 10 mins for him to actually log off from the first time he said goodnight; either he or I would say something and the other would keep the convo going. We said goodnight at least 5 times before he logged off.His last goodnight said something along the lines of "I'll probably see you tomorrow" ... which I thought was weird because I didn't overly need to know that. The friend I was with, N, said he was totally making an excuse to come see me and that if he came he was "interested".The day goes by and I kinda give up, then at 7 I hear him come into the house and head into D's room. I'm beyond shy (when I'm not drinking) so N kept trying to get me to go talk to him; I couldn't do it. About half an hour goes by and me and N hear the boys starting to leave. Our sitting room is on the far side of the house from the door. I hear one person go down the hallway and one coming towards me and N. We assumed it was D and were wrong. J comes and peaks around the corner and asked what we were doing, etc, and then turned around walked down the hallway and left.My first thought was that he came down there just to show me he had been there and N thinks it was an excuse to see me .. this guy is pretty shy, and coming down just to say those few things seemed like a pretty bold move. It's not like we're friends and he was obligated. Please help me aunts, I am lost! ... Is he realizing he might be as into me as much as I might be into him??
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reader, doublejack  +, writes (12 October 2010):
I think he's shown definite signs of interest in you. You need to ask him out or give a clear indication that you want him to ask you.
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