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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hello my boyfriend and i have been dating for about a week now. we have known eachother since summer only problem is i live 8 hours away from him so were doing the whole long distance thing. he is so clingy. i talk to him everyday and when i try and hangup he doesnt want me too. on top of that he calls me baby and babe way to much. hes so sweet too but i feel like he's too nice. i dont know what to do i like him alot and dont want to break up with him but this has to stop!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (13 October 2010):
 Do yourself a favor and walk away. You're not dating if you don't go on dates. This will end badly if you don't end it now.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (13 October 2010):
 i have been in your shoes...i eventually broke up with the guy 3 weeks later. he couldnt control his jealousy and made me feel stressed. give him some time,see if he changes,dont kill yourself over this.u dont like him the way he likes u.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010): I think the problem is here, you're NOT into him as much as HE is into you. If you can't be OVER ZEALOUS in the FIRST flush of things, and someone want to calm you down, NOT be so EXPRESSIVE, then hey, what do you want?
My guess is, he is NOT your IDEAL guy, you like him, find him attractive, but may be something missing for you, not quite connecting for you, and so your enthusiasm is NOT anywhere near as it for him. It doesn't make someone CLINGY or NEEDY because THEY ARE keen and want to TELL YOU.
You see so many females complaining guys don't express themselves, or are not emotional, so what is a guy to do - IS there a SET time for you, for a guy to call you babe, to not want to hang up when talks with you? Or is it as I say, he just doesn't REALLY do it for you. I've yet to see a female so 100% into a guy who didn't want him to express himself..a week or not into dating!
Ask yourself, is he what you're looking for..
Jilly
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reader, person12345 +, writes (12 October 2010):
 You've only been dating a week and he's already bugging you? You should talk to him about it and ask him to back off. Otherwise, you've only invested a week, so it's better to know he's clingy before you're emotionally invested.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010): You just need to slow him down, this guy is just into you, yet he trying to hard. Just tell him he doesnt have to keep praising you or wanting your every moment. Its very exciting at first and I am sure it'll die down soon even if you don't say anything.
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