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writes:Ok have a problem I got a girl trying to re-add me on facebook she dosnt seem to get the hint after all the trouble she has caused by saying and doing nasty things she has pushed altogether 3 friends away and 2 mates against each other . I've given her 3 chances and she's blown everyone of them! I deleted her months ago after she tried causeing drama with me and her boyfriend only latley has she noticed and has been sending me messages asking why? And requesting again everytime I click ignore .when I saw her a week or 2 back she was trying to play the sympathy card so I totaly ignored her plus me and another friend think she has something to do with abreakup that's happened a few weeks ago because her name kept comming up and the way its been done it just seems its showing the signs of her and when something goes wrong for her she's never wrong and its everyone else fault . How do I deal with this nutt job ?
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reader, EtTuBrute  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 Plain and simple, block her. She won't be able to contact you or view your profile if you do this. Facebook also has a "Friends only." setting so that no one can "profile stalk" you.
If you don't respond to her attempts to get a rise out of you, she'll eventually find someone else to bother.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (12 October 2010):
 First off, check your privacy settings on facebook, make your profile available to friends / networks only. Next look her profile up and block her, she wont be able to contact you again then.
If she contacts you via other means just ignore it all, dont be tempted to reply back nasty.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 Does facebook not have a facility where you can block someone permanently???
Continue ignoring her, if she sends you messages, delete them, have no contact with her at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010): You have to be firm with these types of brods:
My advice...
1. Block her name and profile on FB
2. Block her phone number AND any of her friends phone numbers as psycho c**** like that will go out of there way to call you. Trust me.
3. Involve the police. This is clearly harassment and you have told her to f*** off and therefore this should be legally addressed.
This isnt overreacting or taking things too seriously. This is just protecting your own personal well being.
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