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writes:well i need some advice about this problem that ive been dealing with for a long time.well me and my husband live in another state and we come down to see family once in while,and my husband tends to hang out with his friends sometimes. the problem is i get so upset when he does this and i overeact and get really mad. his friends are good people and not bad influences but i just hate it when he leaves me. how would i be able to get over this i hate feeling this way but it seems like i cant get control of myself. any advice to this would be great. Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 October 2010):
 Maybe you need to take some time off to spend with YOUR friends.
Though I have to ask this, does he leave you every time to go hang out? Why aren't you tagging along every now and them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010): Hi!
If he leaves in another state, the attention issue is raised def and perhaps also trust. Maybe deep down you worry about his whereabouts? Also, a bit jealous I suppose and thats normal I think. However, do not let it turn into selfishness as it is def important for people to have a little "me time" in relationships as I think it helps people grow and learn more about themselves. And if he's with his friends, he's definitely doing that whatever they do. Especially since Im sure they have conversations. This is healthy dont you agree? If you have no reason not to trust the guy and you want him to share some time with his friends, then just tell yourself this is for the better of our relationship as it will benefit both parties since the good things he learns form his experiences with his friends, he'll bring back to you.
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