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writes:Basically I was with this girl C for nearly two years, for the first year the relationship was perfect and I fell madly in love. But as time went on, the relationship fell to pieces, she left me. Everything came out she cheated on me, and id cheated on her (believe it or not mine was payback, which I know is pathetic) But as time went on 2 months later I got myself back together, and met someone new, J. She was perfect, treated me like a angel, would of done anything for me. We were together for 3 months then C came back into my life. We were friends intil I realised my feelings for C were still there, so I left J and tried again with C.Basically I need help, C treats me like crap and hurts me but I love her, but J is perfect and do anything for me and has never hurt me, but I don't love her.Who do I pick, or do I leave them both alone and move on from them both. I know I can't physically love anyone while I love C. Id love some advice, negitive or postive. Anything would be great right now.
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?]  +, writes (13 October 2010):
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) If you're in love with C but you don't want to get hurt... Than J doesn't hurt you but you're not in love with her. Then yes, I think you should move on. Save the hassle of choosing, you will have the right person in the future. One that wont do mind games, and cheating, and one that you will love and will love you back. Pick what is best for YOU! Don't worry sweet heart, xoxo.
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