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writes:I need help,serious advice on my situation. I am 22, she is 21. Our society is not like yours , so things are different and complicated. her family wants her to marry her cousin now. She has her option which is she has to marry now,she can marry her choice which again has few requirements which i ll ve to complete. But,she has to get married now. The problem is it ll take two more years for my under grad. Then 2more years for my grad abroad and then at least one more year to get a steady job. I need five years,time is something i dont ve. Neither of us told our parents about our love. What should i do? I dont earn a penny, i cant get married now. I cant think tomorrow without her. She cant think tomorrow without me. what should i do? I am mentally broke. I cant let her get married,but if i dont do anything or marry her, her family ll force her to marry her cousin . I just cant let gdp go. Any help any thoughts that might be helpful? Pls, any thing you want to tell me any advice? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010): You can try to marry her when you finish undergrad... or just do it now, and ask her to wait for you, or else to come with you where you are.... or else she can refuse marriage to this other person. No, I don't live in your society, but I know that it is a human rights violation to force someone into a marriage. It violates your status as a human being. Can you two be brave enough to do the right thing, instead of the traditional thing?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 You could plead to them, ask them to wait. Make them a promise that after those five years you will have everything they want and you can marry her. That is all you can do right now short of running away with her but, I doubt that would end well. Good Luck.
I hope that helps.
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reader, sweetlove  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 Okay, does she want to marry her cousin? If you both want eachother and she dosnt want to marry her cousin, then you both need to say something. Unless she wants to marry him.
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