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writes:i cant stop thinking about these things! this is not completely realated to realationships. im 13, still classed as a kid to some people. i have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and we are going along fine and all the rest. i have a job as a waitress in a hotel, i hate it. the last shift i was on ended in tears and i was sent home. im supposed to be working again tomorow i really dont want to go! im afraid my mum will make me go. this might not seem like a big deal but its bringing me down since ive got this job i dont see my boyfriend as much, he also works and when ever im working hes not and im not when he is and its bringing me down he is going on holiday for i while this week and im really worried about work its stresses me out and makes me feel sick all the time i cant stand this any more. i told my mum i would look for any other job apart from this one. help me! i hate this job and love crisis?
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reader, one girl, thousands of questions. +, writes (12 October 2010):
one girl, thousands of questions. is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey thanks for that :) i know you are right and that means alot to me, but i think ill probablly have to work tomorow as its too short notice to say i wont be coming in.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (12 October 2010):
 I cant understand how you actually have a job aged 13 - it is illegal to do anymore than 'light' work until you are 16! And light work is classed as something like babysitting or a paper-round. I think the right thing to do would be to quit - your employer can get into a lot of touble for employing you at your age, and you are harming your own development by working at your age. If your mum has a problem with this, just tell her it is illegal for you to have a job until you are 16 and your employers have forced you to leave because of your age (even though that is not true, it would be a realistic situation if the authorities found you to be working).
Then that should also solve the situation with your boyfriend, you will be able to see him more. And focus on school - there is a reason it is illegal to work under the age of 16, and that is because it gets in the way of school and affects your development! You have already experienced this, you are struggling to cope with a job and that is because your age so dont worry about quitting your job. Just write a letter to let them know that you are leaving and that will be fine.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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