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writes: A few days ago I broke up with my boyfriend. The reason why I broke up was that I didn't feel in love I didn't have that butterfly feeling. Through he was the most wonderful man I met he loved me so much and would have gave me the moon. But things got so fast between us I don't know if I felt trapped or something but there was something missing. After two month I was getting irritated by his touches and how he acted with me, I felt like he was the only one in love and it made me make a move on the breakup. Now I regret I feel incredibly stupid for leaving him, he was such a good man. We had fun together and now I find myself missing him really bad, thinking maybe I did the bad choice. Maybe I won't find anybody like him. He isn't my first boyfriend but he is was the only one that truly loved me. I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): You said "Even if wasn't in love with him......" Isn't that the same as stating you are in love with him?
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reader, Amiwry +, writes (17 October 2010):
Amiwry is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI never said I was in love, confuse yes but in love I don't know. (And I usually know it when I am)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): If you are in love with him and he's in love with you what's the problem? You said you think you might never meet another man like him and he's the only on who truly loved yoU. I don't understand how love could be better than what there now in your face?????
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reader, Amiwry +, writes (14 October 2010):
Amiwry is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFinally I descided to keep things as they are. He won't talk to me as he is heartbroken and I prefer not to make thing worse with my confused mind. It make me really sad but we both need time off to get over this. He said he don;t get my love so I won't get his friendship. Even if I wasn'tin love with him I wonder if I did the right thing it see it only made things worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): My situation is exactly as yours only I'm the party who was painfully dumped. Sure, I'm so very hurt and miss him soo much. I feel so lost and empty. It's so hard for me to let go but I'm I am having to because that's what he wants, and because I am truly in love with him I painfully putting what I cry for aside to insure his happiness which is no more contact with me. I could only wish that he was in love with me like you are with him. I've met a really wonderful man, and while he is nearly an angel and showers me with love and emotional support behind my ex, I can't seem to slighly give him my heart in any way or form. I'm a miserable emotional love sick wreck.
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reader, Amiwry +, writes (13 October 2010):
Amiwry is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGoing back with him would be the easy option and I must admit I do am thinking about it. But I am scared at the same time things won't change. I don't want to go back with him to break up a few months later. He don't deserve to be played that way and I am not that kind of person. I am just so confuse *le sigh*
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): Why not get back together, sounds like a good idea; this is nothing to feel sorry about either, these things happen.
Also, you should let him read what you just wrote here; it's really sweet.
Good luck :)
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reader, boogie4 +, writes (13 October 2010):
agree with bernard...go get him
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reader, whiteelephant +, writes (13 October 2010):
throw yourself on your hands and knees and BEG him to take you back. tell him you made a mistake, you miss him and cant stop thinking about him. let the cards fall where they may, just don't leave any regrets behind
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