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*annapaola
writes:So I'm 19 my boyfriend is 33 and has 3 kids. I was wondering when would it actually be the right time for him to introduce me to his children. He has 2 girls, one is 9 and the other one is 2 and he also has a boy but he's about 10 I'm really not sure. We do have a relationship that I'm sure it'll last and we both love each other. However, he have not talked about introducing me to his children. I really don't ask because its really something that he should decide but I would love to meet them specially the little since I love kids but I'm sure it might be a little be weird with the older ones because since they are older they'll pretty much know. So I was wondering should I bring the topic up with my boyfriend or should I wait or how long should I wait ? Reply to this Question
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reader, dannapaola +, writes (14 October 2010):
dannapaola is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI def. Agree with u, But I believe in him I do truely believe he loves me and he had done things to prove it . He been there with me through really tough times.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): LoveGirl says : He has 3 kids with 3 diff woman. You are 19, do u really want to mess around ith a habitual baby daddy. This man makes babies everywhere he goes. When do u become baby mommy # 4?
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reader, dannapaola +, writes (13 October 2010):
dannapaola is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell the 3 kids are from different moms, so I only know he talks a lot with the mother of the boy and the little girl. The mom of the boy its always calling him and visit the 2 year old girl a lot. I don't get jealous like that because I know its his children and I should be more worried if he doesn't pay any attention to them than if he does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): That would put pressure on him and kids are naturally jealous. He bring in anotherr little girl...lol. I am kidding age doesn't doesnt bother me. I would just say that one day when you're ready I be glad to meet your family. Where is his ex? That could play a part as well.
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reader, lionelhutz +, writes (13 October 2010):
I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about it with your boyfriend, so you both know where you stand on the issue. But ultimately, this is something that only he can decide and he should do it only when he feels both he and his children are ready.
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