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writes:my fiance and i have been togather for a year and a half and im home on mid tour from afgahanstan and we have a six month old daughter but about a month ago she told me that she thinks that she is starting to have feelings for one of her friends that she met wright after i deployed six months ago i think it is because im not here and he is and he is helping her out with things but we didnt start having problems till he came along she cant see it but her family and i can see that all he and his friends are doing is draggibng her down she wanted to come back in the army but then she changed her mind she wanted to go back to college but then she changed her mind even with me home now all she does is go hang out with him she says its cause she aint used to me being back and now i have to go back for another six months and idk what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): That sucks, I'm really sorry. Your girl is a selfish brat. She's being realy disrespectful. I know that doesn't help but wtf? Maybe try telling her she isn't fooling anyone with her bullshit excuses like she's not used to you being there. Like you're used to coming home to a chick jocking another guy! Yeah right. And tell her she doesn't have to lie to everyone about it. That's what pussies do. If she does like this guy, remind her everyones an adult here so grow up and either admit theres something to her relationship with this other kid and act like adult (She needs to decide what the hell she wants.) and walk or drop the guy completely. Because you're home now, from a damn warzone. You have a kid now, she needs to straighten up or quit because you don't need to be worried about what she's doing while you should be watching your buddies back when you go back. And you can also ...thats what would come out of my mouth if her priorities are straight then this dude doesn't rank anywhere you. Good luck.
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