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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello I am 34 and I'm married to a 28 year old clingy man. We been together for 7 years married for 1 we have a 2 year old son togehter. Here's the thing he cheated on me before we got married with a 17 year old and got her pregnant after knowing her for two weeks. I took him back his mom passed away in 2009 and I was there for him I he ask me to marry him and we got marry in 2009. We been having our problems and it's mainly because I want him to man up and get a job. Last month I caught him with a girl and that same day I left him he moved in with this girl and her brother after nowing her for four days she has a child already. Now it's been about a month now he calls me all types of night while she ain't around he even calls to say he's coming to get my son but never come or even call to say he can't make it. I just found out now that she is pregnant and she is 18. I still love him but he dont't seem to give a damn about me just his self. He do anything and everything in his power to hurt me I'm not hurt about the baby but the disrespect he has for our marriage. I feel like I was just his security blanket and he keeps in touch to see if I have moved into my house yet. Sounds like a user I know but why do I want and love him. I am the only and longest relationship he have been in. Maybe he feel I stole his youth I don't know but my heart is hurting! advice please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): I agree, you need to divorce this guy right away. Obviously he has no concept of fidelity or trust. Go find someone you can have a real relationship with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You so much and I appreciate your quick response!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 I know it is easier said than done but you need to move on and get this man out of your life. If you take him back he will only end up doing it again and again to you. You deserve better for you and your child. I know it is hard when you love someone but believe me he is only going to make you misrable he is a cheater and doesnt concider anybodys feelings except for his own and he is going around having children which is really selfish of him. You need to cut contact with him and get a divorce. Fair enough he is entitled to see your son but dont let him get to you through your son. Tell him you want nothing more to do with him except strictly access to your son. Stay clear of him he is no good.
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