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writes:Ok i been with my bf for 1 year but was with him 7 months b4 he went to prison and i waited for him and wrote him for 2 years so we been living together for a year he has been there 4 me through everything we gotta baby due any day now and he started working a month ago after i took care of him for 11 months ever since he got a job he's been acting different... mind you i am overdue and could go into labor anyday but he wanted to go out with his friends last night which he's never done so i let him. i told him to keep his phone on in case i went into labor the phone went dead and he had his charger with him. he got off at 3 the next day i didnt see him till then. i could of went into labor and he wouldnt have know so when he came back home he left again and been gone for 4 hours. i know he wouldnt cheat but i dont know what to do about the fact that he has changed since he started getting a weekly pay and the fact that he thinks going out and me not able to get ahold of him is ok what to i do Reply to this Question
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 You tell him so you know that he is aware that you need him right now. He needs to be by your side instead of going off and doing his own thing which is fine occasionally but it sounds as though he is doing this far too often. Perhaps he wishes to do this now because he thinks he will never have that chance again after the baby arrives. Still, it is irresponsible of him to be away from you right now so let him know that.
I hope that helps.
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