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writes: hello hope everyone is doing well.heres my problem,problems I should say.I have repeatly told my husband that It upsets me when the first thing in the morning he turns on the computer,as if it's the most imporant thing in his life,yet every morning he gets up and touches the computer,this is my other problem the sex we have is so boring if my husband would spend as much time trying to turn me on as he does the computer our relationship might be better,theres no foreplay its like when he wants it thats all that matters. It's gotten to the point where I just go along with it just to get it over with,I fake getting off because I know there no hope in reaching a orgasam because hes made it all about him.That leaves me ready to be mad at him for any little thing,between the computer thing and our sex life I dont see this marriage lasting long.I just wish he'd change ,the way I see it if he wont listen to me about how I feel when he gets on the computer first thing in the morning Id just be waisting my time even trying to talk to him about our sex life.I love this man with all my heart but lifes too short to live this way,maybe someone out there can help.because this is getting really old.all we do is stay into it ,is this relationship a waist of time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): When your husband turns the computer on, does he walk away while its booting up? If so, jump out of bed, sit or stand in front of the thing naked. When he returns, tell him you wish he would turn you on at least a couples of times during the week, instead of the computer and walk away.
Do not fake your orgasms. If he tends to finish before you, take charge!! Tell him he is yours for the evening and if he cums before you that you will plant your wet pussy on his face until you have enjoyed yourself.
Take charge of your own body for a change!! You might find he would enjoy it.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Does he work? How can he spend so much time in the morning on the computer?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Maybe he has an addiction problem to the computer? Its became routine now to him and its probably very hard to break. Maybe he needs to get help with it, you need to ask him why he keeps disobeying you and hurting your feelings tell him how stronly this is affecting you and that you cant cope with it anymore. As for your sex life why dont you try and spice things up? take the plunge and maybe have a romantic night in and suggest to him things you would like him to do. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): First of all, how long have you been married? Has it always been this way or is this behavior new? What does he look at so obsessively on the computer? I also have a husband who is not into sex the way I think a husband should be. 12 years ago I found evidence that he is a crossdresser. Everyday he looks at fetish sites. Not being too interested in sex is a danger sign with men. Look deeper to find the answer to your mans issue. I promise it won't be simple.
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