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reader, ScottsCove  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 First if you're O.K. with her getting laid by 24 different guys get her tested for STD's when when she gets back, that puss in the back of her throat is probably the clap.
Second, If you're O.K. with her getting laid by 24 different guys, you need to go on the cruise and get laid by 24 different women.
Maybe she won't get pregnant at 53 but maybe she will, condoms help, but out of control sex on cruises even with condoms usually = parents. Of course you'll get to raise a child into your retirement years spawned by her and some drunk on a cruise, but being the idiot that you are to pose this question online, you can be the idiot parent to an 17 year old when you are 65.
I'd like to here all about what she says when she comes back so ask her for all the details and post it.
I think ultimately, this is a fake question and you are a fraud.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 October 2010):
 Well if you are ok with your wife cheating on you then so be it.
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reader, pyan  +, writes (3 October 2010):
pyan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi
i spoke with one of the others hubby today and he said what goes on tour stays on tour and all he know is when his wife comes home she just wants sex too. he said he knew his wife take her dildo and condoms
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reader, joeblow6969 +, writes (2 October 2010):
Not a good sign in any case.
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reader, katoxox +, writes (2 October 2010):
i do not think she is planning to cheat, if she were i dont think she risk getting caught by plcing all those condoms in he bag. She could get condoms while on vacation or doesnt the guy usually supply them.
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reader, pyan +, writes (2 October 2010):
pyan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi all
well thanks for the answers, yes i too think she is going to get laid a few times. the answer about the toy she never bothers with that normally.
she is away for 10 so i will check when she get home and let you know if you like.
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reader, rolfen  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 Oh, and yeah some women do like to put condoms on "dirty" toys. But since it's her toy, I'd expect her to buy one that she would be comfortable using directly, as opposed to one on which she would need to put a condom to be comfortable with.
Bottom line is, it can be that too. You're the best judge here.
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reader, rolfen +, writes (2 October 2010):
You know your wife better then any of us. Even if she's the faithful type, I'd have doubts and difficulty sleeping. If she's the cheating type, then you might even want to skip the confronting part.
I wonder... how come you sound so calm and indifferent after making such a discovery?
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 I think your best case scenario is that she is looking to smuggle heroin when she comes back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): Pin prick each wrapper... that would give her a trip to remember...
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (1 October 2010):
+1 on caring guy
man it is very abvoius that she is planning to cheat infact she might be planning for an orgy with her friends,
what she would be doing with 24 condoms at once ? !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): You must confront her.
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reader, natasia +, writes (1 October 2010):
 maybe that IS what they do.
would you mind if she was going to have a bit of sex with someone while on the cruise?
if you would, ask her about the condoms and why she has them.
if you wouldn't, don't ask her. just let her do it. you've been married 30 years. she comes back to you, loves you, and wants sex for a week with you.
i suspect that if she has been going on this cruise every year, it isn't the first year she has taken condoms.
maybe they are for her friends.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Have you ever had sex with anyone besides your wife during your marriage? Does she know about it? Has she had sex with someone else?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Is one of her friends having a birthday during the trip? Maybe she will be using them for balloons.
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reader, Nime +, writes (1 October 2010):
 I don't know, but she COULD be taking the condoms for innocent reasons. I sometimes put a condom over my vibrator if I don't want to bother with lubricant or the texture plus vibration is a little too rough on me, or if I'm in the shower while using an electric toy. She may be taking them for her toys. If you really want to know why she's taking them, what I would do is laughingly mention you found the condoms in her purse and wish her a really 'GOOD' time, with no sarcasm. If she gets angry, in my mind, she's likely looking to sleep with other men. You sound like a loving husband and if you guys are both still active sexually and romantically with each other, then maybe you don't care if she wants something on the side now and then. You've had 30 years of marriage experience under your belt; maybe issues of occasional 'cheating' have become trivial to you in the scheme of your marriage. I am young and unmarried, but I know that as you get older you will be surprised with the things you can live with. Maybe this is one of those for you.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 October 2010):
 I have to say that if I had packed condoms for a trip, my husband would certainly ask me what the hell was going on. Why would a faithful spouse need condoms?
Are there things about your marriage that would explain things? Are you in an open marriage? Do you sleep with other partners?
Why don't you just ask her?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 October 2010):
I think it's safe to say she wants to cheat. 24 condoms in her bag? She's got plans. I would sit her down and tell her what you found. And you shouldn't be okay with your wife acting this way at all. Worse still, you need to ask yourself whether she's done this before.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 October 2010):
I think it's safe to say she wants to cheat.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (1 October 2010):
Erm unless i have competely mistaken the point here, but why the hell would you be ok with this??? She is your wife and you should both ALWAYS be faithful by the looks of it if she has 24 condoms going on holiday with her then its on her mind to cheat on you. This is not ok and you should be really worried as to why she would do this to you....you need to tell her you found them, and she what she has to say for herself.
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