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anonymous
writes: Im a woman who has lots of children and my husband wont make love to me anymore he always saids he to tired and wont even touch me in anyway or even give me a cuddle and hold my hand when ever we go anywhere then today at the supermarket i got guys just all looking at me and i thought to my self maybe it not me he wont even look at me naked but i would love to look at him naked i love the human body.so can you help me bring back the spark!
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reader, elite123 +, writes (1 October 2010):
maybe he is having some issues down there getting things going.... if you know what I mean. if so he is probably embarrassed. maybe he thinks that by holding your hand it will turn you on and then you will find out. i would tread lightly on this issue. especially if other men find you attractive. it sounds like he isn't happy with himself. however, that is no fun for you and you deserve a good time so you will have to talk to him at some point and express your feelings.
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reader, Stonemason +, writes (1 October 2010):
I think you should talk more to him and be patient. You don't say how long you've been married but I guess it's been a long time. Your husband takes you for granted. You might want to stop cooking and cleaning for him (not for your children), just to give him notice that you won't be a doormat. Make him talk to you. Teach him how to treat you. He's forgotten.
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