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26-29,
*ylan McK
writes:First of all, I'm not a self obssessed idiot, and i know when people are flirting.I want to be with someone who is intelligent, funny and pretty, there is only person who is like that that i want to be with like that. I think she likes me too, she's flirted with me (hands on thighs, asking me too help her in cramped confined spaces, and very strange conversations). Why is this so problamatic?She's my teacher, how does one go about asking out a teacher? How do i then maintain a relationship? help please!
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Well, I don't know how to break this to you, but it's not going to happen.
You might be imagining that she wants you. She doesn't! Get over it.
And even if there was something going on, it's not a good idea. You'll ruin her career. And that would not be fair on her. There's no nice way of saying this.
But I hope you come to your senses and that you find some nice girl your own age.
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reader, xtatic_kid +, writes (1 October 2010):
It can't happen. She will ruin her career. If you really want her, wait a few years and then ask her out.
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reader, Dylan McK +, writes (1 October 2010):
Dylan McK is verified as being by the original poster of the question One realises one's folley. Thanks for the answers, i think its just a misjudgment on her half.
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reader, juliefofulie  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Dylan, it's problematic because it's a felony. She's a grown woman with some serious issues, and she is taking advantage of your youth and inexperience.
Crushes are awesome, a necessary component of development, and the reason why God invented kleenex and bathroom doors that lock. She may be pretty; but the way she is acting is illegal, extremely unintelligent and really not at all funny.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 October 2010):
 One waits until one is no longer a student at that school before attempting to ask one's teacher out. One realizes that one's feelings may cause the wreck of a career, jail time and unhappiness all around. That's what someone who is not self-obsessed would realize.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): Y`know I was just talking about this with my mom,I really admire one of my old teachers and I know that he does like me in some way but its never gone more than flirting and complimenting eachother but when I leave next year I plan to ask him out and he agrees then so be it.
But you are a young boy,this woman is grooming and manipulating you..stay away from her..this is disgusting behaviour REPORT IT!..if you think that you can "mantain" a relationship then you are completely naiive..wait until you are legal and then ask her out. PLEASE WAIT!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 October 2010):
You've picked the wrong woman. She's not intelligent at all. In fact, by doing what she's doing, she's probably breaking that law, and that makes her a sex offender. If something happened between you two, you'd end up expelled, she'd end up fired and unemployable. Thus your lives would be ruined. How do I know? At my school, I had a friend who got involved with a teacher. She got expelled, he was sent to jail and had a breakdown.
You really want a smart woman? This is not the one.
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