A
male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Ok so me and this girl are getting really close. By that i mean, we flirt alot and go do stuff together and stuff like that, but she hasnt officially said we're dating. Im not sure whether to ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend or if i should just wait and see what she says but I dont want to wait to long or else she might think im not showing much interest. What should i do, and what should i say if i ask her???
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 October 2010):
Why don't you just tell her you like her? Maybe ask her what her parents say about her having a boyfriend, then you could say that you'd be willing to interview for the job of 'boyfriend'. Make it light and fun so if she doesn't react the way you hope and expect, you won't feel like you've made yourself too vulnerable.
Or just stay flirty with her and spend time with her until one day you both realize you ARE boyfriend and girlfriend. There's no reason to rush into dating, you have all year, tons of time!
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