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36-40,
*egasus88
writes:Ok....so basically my Best friend(female) screwed me over and accused me of things that i could and would never image doing too her behinde her back and actually believing i would EVER do or think these things. We've been there for each other though equally hard times and i just feel so let down because even thought it was a friendship,it was more of a relationship kinda thing. I ignored her after a certain event that had happened that really led me into thinking too cut all ties with her,which i did for over a month. As it happened i moved Country ( as we both planned too moved together) it was my dream too do more with my life,but she always seemed too hold me back for over 3 years, saying she would move with me but i know she didn't have any intention too. So ive moved back too this new country, my life is exactly how i was dreaming it would be,everything i could possibly want it too be,i absolutely love it! :) But then i think of her and it kind of brings tears too my eyes. We we're so close. When i decided to cut all ties with her she texted me a coupled of times (i just ignored her) and then she emailed me (which i also ignored.) I though about her the other day,i know it might sound like im in love with her or something,but im not,im just a person who really values friendship.But when i get hurt bad i feel like i need too heal first before i can ever think about truly forgiving somebody. She has now moved too this country that im living in ( i found out through my boyfriend's friend) and im now considering weather or not to get in contact with her....what should i do?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 October 2010):
You know when a woman goes out with a man who repeatedly hurts her and such, and you scream 'dump him' but she doesn't listen and she gets hurt over and over again. It can work for friendships too. Whatever she did to you, it was big enough that you needed to cut ties. If it was something that big, then she's not a friend.
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