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writes:I'm a girl, and I have a super best friend who I talk to about everything and anything. We're totally tight and we like to joke about sex all the time.But just a week ago or so, we were outside and started feeling each other's boobs and nipples and stuff, and we were totally sober. We didn't go any farther, but now we like to touch each other's cheeks and put our faces really close. It's just for fun, but is there a point when it just isn't really friendly joking anymore?Might I add we have sex fantasies about each other and we tell each other about them.Are we friends, or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): Hey, nothing wrong with it. Doesn't mean you're gay, you're just young and experimenting. I think you still are friends, nothing more. You'd be surprised, but a lot of people actually have this kind of "messing around" relationship with their friends. If it makes you happy,go for it! Doesn't mean you're a couple or anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): Hey there,
Friends do talk about everything of course but you have crossed the line into physical by touching each other.
This may not mean you are gay or bi, but maybe just curious being young. When you get really close to this person do you feel any different? Maybe a sexual attraction?
You are deffinetly a little more than friends, but over time thinga might change if feelings become involved.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 What do you think? Do you think you're still friends? Do you want to keep being 'just friends'? Are you sure this is not just about sex?
I am going to assume that it is not simply about sex, if that was the case, I think you two could blossom into something more than friends. The only real factor in question here is, are you sure he is the right man for you. I do not know how long you two have known each other but if you think he will/he is treating you right, then this could be a gift of fate. You could have a very happy future together.
I hope that helps.
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