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writes:I want to know about one thing, about one trait of the girl I loved.I took her number from a guy who used to talk to her at night(he took her number from his friend who was also talking to her parallely). When I got into commitment with her she never quit her nature of talking to every wrong caller and making friendship with him. I being a man used to tell her that it is bad, we are in commitment and there is wrong in talking and making friendship with every wrong caller male. She said "no, there is no wrong in it, you are being doubtful, what is the use of out being educated. you should trust me, I do talk to every unknown guy but am yours).Every friend and including my mother said that her nature is not loyal. Her family is too open and they never tell her that it is bad being free with every guy. If you marry her, she will certainly betray you as she will not change her nature. A girl should not be a piece of cake.She admitted that she also has physical relation with a guy during our relationship.I want to leave her as the relationship is over. If she has got physical with me, silently done Mutah(a shia religious ritual of marrying), and then has not changed to loyal girl, she can ruin my life afterwards(as she will certainly have lots of oppurtunities of doing frienship due to her nature).I need your advice that have I taken a good decision by leaving her ? However clingy, bad, womanly I was, this does not mean getting into frienship, relations (PARRALLELLY) with every man you come across. It is kind of prostitute behavior.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): But is it chaste and loyal behavior to talk and do friendship to every wrong caller on the very first call ? She says that there is no wrong in it, I talk to guys whom I don't know and talk about sex, romance, etc everything, but I am yours.
Does a loyal girl has to be like this ? I know talking is not bad but if you now the person e.g. friend and also you have to restrict your talk to specific purpose, not if you are committed and you talk to wrong callers and get free with EVERY guy.
Isn't this dishonesty ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): I wouldnt say she is a prostitute. I would say that she is not a potential wife. She has cheated already and by the look of it,will cheat again. Have no females ever called the wrong number? Would she be just as accomodating?
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 talking to people and sleeping with them are different things, but if she has had physical relations with someone else while you were together then she will not be honest in marriage...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): Do not take that type of abuse from anyone, shes totally abusing your caringness and love towards her. She refuses to stop talking tonrandom
Guys. she doesnt respect your needs or wants. Then she actually is banging some dude and you. Who knows if she was havin safe sex, she could have given you an std, shes that selfish, i guarantee you she will never change, youll jus give her more inches an she'll take
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