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writes:Well I like this lad. We talk all the time, call text msn, and even go on cam, i really like him but i don't know how to tell if he likes me or how to make him think hmmmmm yeah i like her too :/
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (2 October 2010):
Hi there. It really depends on how long you have been talking to each other.
You are not going to know this for a little while yet.
Have you actually met each other? I mean do you go to school together, or have you met him only on the internet?
You can't force him to tell you he likes you, it will only come with time. You can guess if he does, by how he speaks to you and what tone of voice he uses when he speaks to you. If he sounds interested in you by having some enthusiasm in his voice, that would definitely be a sign that he likes you.
Also, if he keeps contacting you and seems to want to keep talking to you, you can assume that he at least likes you enough to keep doing so. It's fairly obvious when any guy likes a girl. Men just don't always say it in words.
If you want to hear it in words, you might be waiting a long time. You would know if he didn't like you, because he wouldn't be very interested in talking to you, or might make an excuse to cut the conversation short after a few minutes.
Just go with it and enjoy his company and see how it goes. If it goes on for a few weeks or months, he might then indicate somehow, that he likes you or might say it in words.
To get to know each other better, you really do need to be seeing each other and maybe going out to see a movie now and again, or visit each other at your houses.
Call text msn - is that mobile texting? You also say you use web cam to chat to each other. Are you in the same town, or is it different countries, or are you local to each other? Is distance the reason that you only communicate this way?
These electronic communication systems are fine over a short time, but to really get to know each other properly, you do need to be able to see each other in person on a fairly regular basis.
If it is a long distance friendship, then there can be problems because you can't see each other regularly. It's very hard to keep it going for any length of time.
Hope this helps you. Take care and best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): He likes you.
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