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writes:Okay guys here's a ? For you! Bear with me.... I was married for 20 years to an alcoholic, have threeGreat kids. 10 turbulant years a customer. Had alway's admiredAt my store starts being more than just nice. He comes into the More frequently, lingers to chat, tells me when he won't be aroundObviously finds excuses to come to the store at least 2 timesA day. This progresses over the corse of about 4 yearsUntil we're chatting on the phone on my day's off. Year five we decideTo meet, to see if the incredible chemistry is there when we're alone.It definately was there. We never had sex, and never said I love you's Because we were both married. His family was younger than mine and his Life was somewhat happier. We didn't run our spouses down when we talkedWe just enjoyed each other. I fell in love and knew I would get hurt so I dEnded it. I quit my job. He said he regretted nothing, and would alway's Think well of me. 11 years later I am. Remarried and back at the store, and so is he. The tensionIs incredible. I am scared to death. I love my new husband and wouldNever hurt him. But something still happens when this guy is there. He is kind and polite, But now he is pointedly looking at me before he leaves.What is going on here?? Was this guy a creep? Or was it love for him too?What do you all think.....
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Was this guy a creep? What would lead you to believe that? He is probably feeling the same thing you are. But you cannot do anything about it now. You are married.
Ask yourself this. Do you love your husband? If you don't, you have to divorce him because it is not fair to either of you. If you do, then stay with him and start spending more time with him.
I hope that helps.
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