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age
41-50,
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writes:Its been almost three years for my arranged marriage. I was just 25 when I tied a knot with the girl who is three years younger to me……I was very happily working and was enjoying every single moment of my marriage life….Before my marriage I was in love with two girls but we couldn’t settle down things in our relationship and finally were separated…..After my marriage I wanted to love my wife all my life n things were going in the flow until I meet a girl in a journey while I was traveling to my meeting….We spoke to each other and discovered that we have many common likes and dislikes. We exchanged our numbers started texting then calling then one fine day we decided to meet.After that meet we came more closer to each other and finally we broke the ice….She is 6 yrs younger to me and is in deep love with me…..Even I fell some what same for her….and day by day I am getting closer to her…….But I don’t want to leave my wife….She is just the way an ideal wife should be…..and dose every thing for me…..but at the same time even this girl dose the same for me……and most imp thing, neither my wife knows about my girlfriend and nor dose my girlfriend knows that I am married………I am totally messed up and every day I think I am playing with two life’s…….But I love both of them…….Whats the solution???????
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): Tell them both the truth. Then, after they both dump you, you can maybe find a new girl - and be faithful to her.
Yes, it is possible to love two people at the same time, but if you aren't being honest with them, to my mind you don't really love either of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): In answer to your question, I think it is possible.
But, you can't have both. Imagine if one found out about the other, think of all the pain, anger, jealousy, frustration etc they would feel.
You need more self control.
Make a choice and dedicate your life to her. Make her happy and never put yourself in such a situation again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): Caution! You can have nice feelings for two members of the opposite sex, I agree. But one is matured love and the other is infatuation or just a habit or a belief that you are in love. Think of who take the pains for you? Think of who cooks, washes and cleans for you? Who would take care of you when you are sick? Who would lose something if you are dead? Do you think it is your wife or the other girl? Go for her!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 You are playing with two lives and it is very very wrong, you are going to end up really hurting one of these women is that what you want? first of, you should never have gave this girl your number you said you are happily married so why did you start playing with fire?? if you want my opinion i think these two women are better off without you.
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reader, welsh  +, writes (1 October 2010):
You are just plain selfish and are messing up two lives here. Hope you do not have any children from your marriage, else more lives are getting screwed up for no fault of theirs.
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