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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I think I am making myself crazy with this, and I can't really find anyone to talk to about it or help me with it. Here is the story:I have been with this guy for almost 2 years, and I love him dearly, we live together etc. Before me he was dating a friend of mine, and her and I had a huge fallout before I started dating this guy.Her name is Kels. Me and Kels used to be a little more than friends, sharing private photos and hours on the phone. We used to be the same size, but I gained weight in the past 4 years, where as she is still perfect...I have been losing weight in the past year, I am down to a size 7, but my body just won't return to the way it once was, I have lost most of my breasts (A or barely B cup now) (where as she had C's, and I USED to)And I have lost most of my fat in my butt, the most unfortunate thing for me because it was really the only thing I liked about myself... So Now I am stuck with the fact that I know she was his first love, and she is so much more than I am... Also after being with her for 5 months he got her a ring... and we have been together for almost 2 years... He says he wants to get married... but he doesn't really talk about it, or the future. I feel like he loved her as a person and looks, and until I am back into a 5 and magically grow a butt and boobs that I will never have a husband... He never knew me when I was skinny excpet in photos, and I feel like I have let him down or disapointed him... And myself I guess. I just keep beating myself up, and I cant seem to find any ways to make my butt what it used to be, working out just makes it more SOLID, I need the fatty tissues... Help me please someone
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): How you look should not determine how he feels for you. If he only wants you based on looks than how will he feel if you both stay together until your really old. Maybe he feels he needs to take more time with you because of his past experience. Don't feel bad about that in fact when the time comes it will be that much better. You need to keep telling yourself that you are beautiful, I've seen it before, if you are confident it shows like some sort of glow (honest). Do not think she is more than you simply because of her body,beauty shows from the inside.
Keep your head up because you are worth more.
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