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writes:i dont know wether i should stay with my boyfriend after all the lies he told me we dont even talk much anymore and he leaves me at home alone with our newborn baby all the time to be with his mum, before our baby was born we were inseparable and now we are like strangers i even found out that he told someone else that he wanted to be with her n he didnt love me and he really liked her.....when i confronted him he hit me and i charged him with assault he told me that hes really sorry and he wants a second chance to be my partner and our bays father again but im scared that hes going to hurt me again please help what should i do???? =? Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (2 October 2010):
 There are no excuses for violence. Now you also have your baby to protect as well as yourself. Help is available but it wont come knocking on your door. You need to be pro active and seek the help you need to get yourself and baby somewhere safe where you can lay the foundations for a good life for the pair of you.
There are two nation wide numbers you could try
Domestic Violence Line 1800 656 463
Salvo Care Line 1300 36 36 22
Write down any numbers they give you and heed any advise they give. You may need to wait until after the weekend to be able to act, but in the meantime talk to these people and start making your plans for your future.
We are so lucky in Australia we have Centrelink as a safety net, so that will minimise your financial worries.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): If he hit you for confronting him about wanting to be with someone else, don't take him back, and let him be with his new crush. Then she'll just have to put up with his ways.
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