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*earofthegentleman
writes:When the girl I like stares at me I tend to look quickly away because I get nervous. Can someone give me tips on what to do if this happens again. Should I maintain the eye contact? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): Look at her, get eye contact, SMILE!! :)
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 December 2010):
 Wink at her or smile at her if you like her ;) That way you can see if she has a sense of humor, if she is interested or just happen to look in your general direction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): Don't smile, certainly not a pre- practiced paste- on one! Return eye contact for a bit, then later go say hi. Don't act superfriendly with a smile if that's not your true personality... you'll give a different, sexier impression if you just gaze back for as long as you feel like (don't count or follow some strange male pickupahottie regime) and then go over.
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reader, Odds +, writes (2 December 2010):
 Keep looking. Don't stare wide-eyed or anything, just keep looking, taking in the details of her face, and smile after a few seconds. Raise your eyebrows a bit when you smile or it looks fake. If she smiles back, walk over and say "Hi." Just don't be the first to look away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): Yeah if they look back at you then keep looking count to 3 and smile at her. Really smile, a happy smile, one that makes your eyes smile too. If you know what I mean. Practice in the mirror if you have to. I told a friend of mine to do this before and he smiled but his eyes remained leery so he looked like a psycho that wanted to head butt them or something.
Just smile at her and if she smiles back then you're sorted. The next step is to find an excuse to talk to her and ask her out.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (2 December 2010):
yes, try your best to maintain eye contact
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