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We're planning a threesome...am I wrong to demand we use protection?

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Question - (2 December 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2010)
A female United States age , *ianneRn writes:

I'm married to my soul mate and sex is great I want to make things hotter for him I asked him if he would like a 3some and he was shocked but said yes. I'm so comfortable with our relationship is why I would do this. He would only want another female, he doesn't want a male touching me, but he want both to explore another female. Neither have experienced this and I want protection used with the other female and him he was hesitant with this. He knows a female and it's a past fling of his but it doesn't matter to me protection is important to me. Am I wrong for this

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010):

If you have a very good and solid relationship I think you are mad to risk things with a threesome, protection or not. Really give it some thought as once you've opened pandora's box, its impossible to put the lid back on.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010):

Why do you want your husband to have sex (unprotected or not) with another woman? If he is your soul mate (as you have stated) why aren't you enough to make it hot for him? Why would you think another woman would make your intimacy 'hot' for him? In other words, on one hand you are saying that you two are a pair... and on the other hand... admit that you aren't enough.

Frankly, he doesn't want to use protection because he wants to enjoy contact. The bigger question has to be... why do you think you aren't enough for your husband and why is it considered a 'gift' to him for him to have sex with someone else?

I just don't get this.

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (2 December 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntAbsolutely not. You are right to demand protection. To avoid mistakes so you can both fully immerse yourselves in this without worry of accidents.

Truth be told though, I hope you have fully considered this and you trust each other enough because threesomes may feel good but they tend to ruin a lot of relationships. Make sure you trust him.

I hope that helps.

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