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writes:Well me and my friend "josh" have known each other since we were little. We are currently in highschool. At the beginning of November i asked him out and he said yea. But a day later he changes his mind and breaks up with me. He avoids me for a week then texts me saying sorry and suggest we take a chance. I talked to him about it and he said nevermind. He then avoids me for another week and texts me saying what a big mistake he mad on rejecting me. He plans a date to the movies but cancels with no reason. I text him but he never replies back. We both told each other how we felt and we both liked each other. Currently i dont know what he's trying to tell me. Is he trying to tell me he doesnt like me anymore or what?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 December 2010):
 *NOT letting this stop you! :)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 December 2010):
He's basically telling you without having to come right out and say it: he's not interested in you in the same way you are interested in him.
The best thing to do right now is to back off, stop texting him and just go on about your normal life. If he's ever ready to go out with you, let HIM ask YOU out. You've done a very brave and difficult thing, ask someone out and show that you are interested. If he's not interested, it's not because you are awful, it's just one of those unfortunate truths in life. That is, not everyone we like likes us back the same way.
Life may be full of these types of disappointments. The key is not to take it personally. Yes, I know, how much more personal can it be? But the thing is not really about you and him, it's more about HIM and that he simply doesn't have the social skills to handle this well yet.
Hold your head up high, you were brave, you ARE brave and it's his loss if he doesn't see it. So let it go, be a bigger person and just leave him alone for now. Let HIM come chase you when he's ready. IF he's ready. In the meantime, YOU are living your life and letting this stop you, right?
Good luck.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 December 2010):
 In a nutshell. Break up with him this time.
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