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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i cant ever seem to make the passionate love i soooo desire. Its so akward... it usally only last a minute or two and we are done. Im so not used to this! I general have to make all the moves and he never wants to try anything new. We never talk about it cause it would be too akward. I mean we have been together for 3 years have two kids im soooooo in love with him but the sex is just so wierd its so different with him. We also dont have problems in the communications area, isnt your significant other supposed to be like your best friend??!!? I need some help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): Common problem with couples....really, you are not alone.
Get some books on sex and read them. The Joy of Sex and similar books can be helpful. Some books are just junk, and anything that promises "mind blowing" is just hyping things for themselves but may still make good reading.
If he won't experiment or work with you on this, then get a counselor to help you communicate.
The best sex, hands down, is between two people who understand each other and work to make each other happy in this manner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): How is it that even after you've had 3 kids you still aren't comfortable talking about sex openly? I don't think talking about sex with your boyfriend should be awkward, it's a normal thing in a relationship. How would each of you know what the other wants, or doesn't, if you two don't talk about it. Tell him that you think it would greatly help your sex life if he would try to talk about it openly, without being embarrased. Other than that I don't know what else you might be able to do. Sorry it's not much, but I hope it helps. :)
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