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Question - (2 December 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, *ubyrose writes:

i know to wait until im comfortable but just curious as to how long others wait to give handjobs in relationships?

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A male reader, soon567 United States +, writes (2 December 2010):

You really want to get to know someone before you introduce sex into the equation. Keep your clothing on and his hands off you. Nothing wrong in getting to know a person before you starts servicing them on a daily basis. Yes, once you start servicing a guy you have to keep doing it or risk hurting your relationship. Try spooning instead of nude and I think you will go further.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010):

whenever feels right honey. don't stress out if you feel you want to but are scared you are coming on to strong, just go for it. the further he goes the further you go, but it will just come naturally. It's all about how comfortable you feel with him.

Good Luck Xx

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A female reader, rubyrose Australia +, writes (2 December 2010):

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we started making out with bare chests around 1.5/2 months into the relationship--- is it ok not to go "below the belt" until about 4 months?? to me, making out without my top on is no big deal- but do guys see it another way? (i.e. like im teasing?)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010):

Really no textbook thing on that ... it's about how each relationship progresses and when each person feels comfortable.

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