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writes:Hey Cupid.Q1. Okay so i have been going out with my boyfriend for about one and a half, maybe two months now. we have tried sex, including oral and using your hands but anytime he does anything (this happens especially with the hand using part) there is a build up, i mean i can feel it and its like a sensation that needs to be released. but the problem is that this release never comes. (i know what this is by the way). what i'm asking is how do i get this release? and also when we try sex, i dont seem to feel anything other than him sliding in and out, oh and sometimes pain when he goes in too deep. what is that pain? how can i stop it from happening? and how on earth can i start enjoying sex?i mean, we came home one day to a free house, so we decided to try sex again and i couldnt feel anything monumentally special and i asked him and he was nowhere near close. what is happening? how can i find out or learn how to actually enjoy sex? not just for me but for both of us....im sorry it sounds whiney and bratty almost, but im in a dilemma.much obliged to anyone that helps :D xQ2. As i said before in one of my other questions, i have been going out with my boyfriend for about one and a half maybe 2 months now and i find myself looking at other guys, namely one guy that ive become friends with, a friend of my bf. he's really good looking and funny and i cant help but act like i have a crush on him....i mean my boyfriend is amazing and i wouldnt trade him for the world, its just i feel as though i fancy more than one guy.....is this weird and wrong? what should i do? i mean i find myself imagining scenarios where my bf cheats on me and i end up with him.....i have an active imagination and its really hard to stop these thoughts.....and i end up feeling really guiltycan anyone help? in any way possible?much obliged :D
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reader, soon567  +, writes (5 December 2010):
You can love someone yet not be into them and that would explain why it’s so hard for you. Your bf now probably would make a great friend but lover well only time will tell. Everything a guy can do to a girl a girl can do to a guy except doggy, well straight guy. Here:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 have you tried other positions or just missionary (him on top) sometimes its just about finding the right position. or maybe you need to realize that your not really that into this relationship. i dont know all the ins and outs but it sounds like you may not be ready for a relationship like this. your still young.
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