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writes: me and my girlfriend are together for 1 year.....we have a very happy relationship...i have been regular at having massages at home...they are done to me by my male masseau..he is very professional at his job...so i thot of letting my gf have a massage done by him...as she never had a massage and it was to be done by a male,she was initially a bit reluctant bt finally said yes 2 it knowin d guy was prfofeesional...normally one has to be only draped by towels bt as she was uncomfortable she wore her shorts and a bra underneath the towel...i left him 2 do his job...later she told me that he asked her to remove the upper towel and asked her to unhook the bra so that he could massage her back...on the front he massged her breast removing her bra completely...she said no 2 dis bt he said dis was a part of the massage n he wasnt doin nethin wroungnow d prob is my gf has stopped tlkin 2 me after d incident...she feels i led in on...though i didnt...he massages my chest so i told her its nuthin wrun bt shes nt buyin dat...wat do i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx 4 ur feedback...i hope it solves my issue
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (2 December 2010):
 Something like that is definitely not part of a normal massage. It's different when he does that to you, you don't have breasts. This man used the circumstances to his advantage to cop a feel, and your girlfriend has every right to feel angry and not believe for a second it was just part of the massage. Brushing it off as no big deal is obviously part of why she's upset. Instead, let her know you won't tolerate this sort of behaviour towards her from anyone. Report the masseuse to his employer (if there is one) and hire someone else.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (2 December 2010):
 No non-erotic massage ever involves rubbing a woman's breasts. So yes, he did do something wrong in fact, he did two things you should be outraged about. He demanded that she remove her bra despite her having refused to, he practically forced this upon her and you did nothing about it. That is why she is upset, or more than upset, considering the fact that she felt violated and betrayed. You have to fix this.
I hope that helps.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (2 December 2010):
 Massaging breasts is NOT a standard massage whatsoever- at least not where I'm from.
I'd be paying your guy a visit and demanding some kind of apology to both of you.
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