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writes:I have a family friend that i have been attracted to for a long time now. she is beautiful. we have been close since birth. when we were 5 or 6 we used to kiss. we would get under the covers in my bed and just play around for hours, nothing down south though. now that we are both adults, I want to do that again with her. I'm curious that do you think she might feel the same way? Reply to this Question
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reader, INCREDIBLEME01 +, writes (6 December 2010):
 You haven't mentioned one word about your friendship as it stands today, except that she beautiful. She is not that 5 or 6 years old she once was. You haven't mentioned your current ages. I sure hope you aren't saying these things envisioning she is that same little girl she was back then.hmmmmm
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reader, soon567 +, writes (5 December 2010):
Some fantasy need to just be a fantasy. go find a woman you can be faithful too.
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Hahahaha.... Great post Lepew! :)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 December 2010):
 I give you something: you're creative. I like you for that. Honest! You and I would have a great time playing jokes on each other for a long time.
I have always felt like playing under the covers with many women. Unfortunately, if I said that to them, they would think my saying that was only due to my wanting to have sex with them. I would believe them if they told me that.
I can think of adding spice and variety to that game of yours. Why don't I play with a woman under the covers without any clothes on? Wouldn't that be nice? We could even call it "Adam and Eve before the Fall"!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 December 2010):
 This family "friend" is your cousin. Please go back and read the new answers you don't seem to agree with in your other post.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 December 2010):
 I think this question sounds familiar. I think this is you too: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/sexual-fantasies-about-my-cousin.html
What would the impact on the family and your "friend" be if your sexual fantasies are unwanted and she rejects you and freaks out about it? Have you thought through the possible outcomes, beyond getting her in bed? It doesn't sound as though you have, personally.
Talk to her, but be prepared to be rejected. And be prepared for the aftermath of what that rejection might entail. How will this impact your family and the "friend"?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (2 December 2010):
 How could we know that?? All I know about her is that when she was 5-6, she used to play with you like little kids are wont to do. If you have been close since birth, you should get up the nerve to talk to her about your feelings, but do not approach her like all you want is to roll around under the covers! That is assuming that she's "easy", and that's NEVER the way to approach a woman.
Nobody on this forum will know what she is thinking. We don't know her! We don't know you! All we have is this little paragraph of information. You should just ask this family friend out to dinner and tell her that you have feelings for her. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): ask her ...
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