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When I ask him for sex he gives me a bunch of excuses!

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Question - (2 December 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, I am very confused about my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for four years (where both 22) and I love him more than anything. The problem is he wont have sex with me. We never had an overly crazy sex life we'd do it once a week maybe twice which is fine with me. It has gotten to the point where we haven't done it in about a month. I feel like he makes a bunch of excuses when I ask to do it. They range from I'm stressed to I don't want you to get what you want. It really hurts especially when he says the latter. A few weeks ago we went on vacation for a weekend and we did more than we have ever did it in like I'm not sure how long. I just don't understand him. (Please don't tell me you think he is cheating I know he isn't). I really don't want to break up with him it just doesn't feel like an option for me right now but I sure could use some advice. I suppose there are a few things I should add he works two jobs and averages about 3 to 4 hours of sleep a night,and he has no social life besides being with me. I just figured those maybe important to know,

Thank you.

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