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writes:I think I'm in love with my best friend!What do I do?When I was at one of my friends parties we were playing the usial spin the bottle, 5 minutes in heaven, that sort of games. But with a difference, we decided that gay was OK to make it more interesting.When it was my turn to spin it landed on my best friend, I thought OK proper make out for a laugh but when we kissed she stuck her tounge down my throat, and I liked it! I returned the favour and then we carried on as usual.Later on we were chosen for 5 minutes in heaven and when we got in the cupboard she said should we strip and go out in our underwear for a laugh so we started to take off our clothes but we still had time left so we started kissing then when the cupboard door was flung open we were lying on the ground practically naked, pulling, and I was enjoying it!I don't know what to do I think I might be a lesbian. I've had sex with a guy but not a girl but I think if it was 1 hour in heaven we might have, we were both getting really into it and I think I love her!Please help. Xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you everyone for the great advice. Yes, Annalisa, I do normally fancy guys and have a boyfriens atm, but she is't the first girl that i've liked, so I do think that I am going to be bisexual but I am taking the advice and not labelling anything. I love my boyfriend and feel good when we have sex but I still do think that I might go out with a girl at some point. Thnx 4 everything anyway. Xx
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reader, r_a_w_r1645  +, writes (2 December 2010):
 i would say, keep trying things with her and if you still have feelings for her. tell her.
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reader, Princessmamma +, writes (2 December 2010):
Wow sweetie. Thats funny bcuz the same exact thing happened to me my best friend of 11 years were at a party and we ended up getting a little to much alcohol. We ended up making out and a little more. I felt the same way i liked it. And my whole life all i have ever been with was guys i had never been with a girl. As time went by i really started liking her and i thought i was confused and just going through a phase. I knew my bestie was lesbian but it had never crossed my mind that she liked me a few months later i felt that i loved her we had been messing around for awhile after the party and she started coming around and spending time with me more. I loved being around her we had so much fun and a great time. I finally told her i liked her truns out shes been in love with me since the 7 th grade. 11 years later that very night we got together she and i have now been together for a little over a year and im the happiest i could ever be in my whole life. She completes me and makes me so happy. Its so much different being with her than with a guy. With a guy its all about him but with her its about us and my kids. It all started with a kiss and now shes the one i cant live without were engaged to be married she just purposed a couple weeks ago. And she is still my best friend to this day. This may not be ure case as u r still young but who knows it could be. Just something to think about sweetie goodluck i wish u the best and if it happens to be then dont listen to what other people say about u. But give ureself time to think about it more goodluck and if u have any questions please feel free to get back at me. Let me know what happens. Much love
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): think over it more, then if u still feel the same tell her? its your choice what you want to do, honestly no one else can tell you wat you should do about it.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (2 December 2010):
No you’re not a lesbian but your escapade has you confused. Don’t be too alarmed because you‘ll see other females that are turn on by another female, yet they’re not gay in any form. I say chop this up as lesson learn and don’t play that game again.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 December 2010):
 Well first off you are only young and at your age most of us go through phases of being attracted to the same sex, it doesnt mean that you are a lesbian you are just wanting to experiment which can be completely normal so dont try and label yourself at the moment, when you are older you will then no if you are gay/bisexual/straight. But for now try not to worry about it.
Am guessing if she is your best friend then you can trust her? If so talk to her and tell her how you feel, explain to her that you enjoyed it and that now you are confused and not sure what you want. Goodluck.
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