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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I broke up almost two months ago and we haven't spoken since. She broke all communication and now blames me for everything and isn't looking at her own actions throughout the relationship, so getting together again will probably never happen and I wish she'd just talk to me again. But anyway, I've met other girls since and I've been taking things slow since I still have deep feelings for my ex, but I find that I don't get aroused as much around women anymore. I would go crazy around my ex. I couldn't even hug her or kiss her in public because I'd just get a hard-on right there. But now whenever another girl seems interested or gets close and touchy with me, I don't feel anything at all. What is this? Is it because I still feel so deeply for my ex girlfriend? To be honest, I'm not even looking to jump into anything anytime soon, physical or emotional. But it's weird not getting ANY response. And no, I haven't started batting for the other team, if you know what I mean. Any advice, clues, help? Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): I really hope you two will be able to work it out. It sounds like you have amazingly deep rooted feelings there still with her, for them to be lingering in such an obvious physical way. This problem will likely faaaaade ovvveerrrr timmmme if you do not. But understand it will take time...
Keep heart,
Tante Victoire
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