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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Okay so my ex-boyfriend and i broke up like 2 weeks ago for legit this time, we have been together for 4 years. But heres the story...He thought i liked some one else, which i did, but kept it secret because i was just gonna get over it and go back to him because i loved him. But instead he got mad at me and never talked to me, so he chatted me one night and said it wasn't working and he wasn't happy. So i did what i thought was right and said maybe we need a break? he said we should just break up compeletly, i agreed thinking we would come back together in two days like always but no, after two days he kissed another girl??? then a day after that they started going out. I was shocked and wondered maybe he cheated on me, but i blew it off. But i miss him and still love him. But he says he was done with me awhile back. I just want to get him back 100% or get over him some how? I tried getting a new guy and that didn't help.
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reader, Paridisepassion +, writes (2 December 2010):
Ya this means that he was planning to break it off with you for this girl for a while..e left you for another woman..He was cheating on you and had to remove your girlfriend tittle to be with the other girl..break up with you in other words..
Men like what they can't have..they like the chase..My ex did the sam thing after only a month and a half..he atleast cut me off befor it got really deep only on my side..because on his side he only said he cared for me just cared..
Atleast yours didn't make gay statements around the clock..and wanted to sleep with men because they can't get pregnant or told you he was gay befor he met you and you made him straight..also yours didn't have a girl best friend that he use to be with ..that he's still inlovewith today..
ou see youb got it good..
Having a bu sexual boyfriend who used m for sex ..I know alittle about being used..
You boyfriend was possibly inlove with a good chase..other woman..or fell out of love for you..
Men are game players they like a good game ..a good chase..they like fantasy..
Just cut contact all together and stick to no contact for a month..if he comes back..play it cool and keep your options open..either way don't let him come back without a fight..men like the chase..don't be a robot for him like I was ..be mysterious..
I learned a lot about how men can use a woma anddrop them like nothing..my heart still bleeds..but ill live..
You will live to..just don't make the same mistake twice..If he dumped you ..No contact will make him feel you dumped him..its male psychology..Good luck girl and im here if you need me
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