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anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,i was close to this lad a while ago, like brother and sister close, hes 2 years older than me btw, and then we recently fell out, and we made up again and i went to his house on monday, and we didnt do anything, but on the tuesday, i went again and he got very close to me, he fingered me and i gave him a hand job, when i got home, i text him to see if it was just a fling or if it ment something, and he replied he doesn't know,i love you alot but i just dont know.. then he said it felt right when we did it but after i went he thought 'i shouldn't do this?' what does it mean?pleaseeeeee help, im soo confused :/
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (2 December 2010):
 It's the conflicted feelings of deep friendship. When we've never really considered someone in a sexual light it can lead to extreme confusion when sex is introduced to the relationship.
I will say that of course it felt right when you were doing it. Once hormones take over logic goes out the window.
You need to decide if you want to date this boy. Decide what you want. Then take it slowly. You've introduced sex too quickly. I know you've known each other for a while, but really you've never dated.
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reader, Jasmin.x +, writes (2 December 2010):
well, do you actually love him? if you dont, dont pretend you do.
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