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writes:Been with my b/f for 3 yrs. The woman he was with before me really messed him up emotionally. She moved to Oregon. We have a pretty good relationship now but it's been a rocky one and I don't think he's over her yet. He was in contact with her for the first year we were together and then I think they lost touch. She was a bad person, had a habit of stealing and using people. For the past year, I occasionally run across Oregon phone numbers in his possesion. He always tells me to check his pockets before I do the laundry because I used to always forget, and then items would get washed that should not. Sometimes when we're traveling, he has me reach into his bag in the backseat and retrieve his sunglasses or a multitude of other items. Sometimes I have found phone numbers scrawled onto little pieces of paper in his pockets, or in his briefcase and because I recognize the area code, I often jot them down and call them later. They are always disconntected numbers, so they are not legitimate businesses, or business contacts that he is saving. I suspect they are phone numbers to some of her family because all her family lives in Oregon. The question is, should I confront him or just keep quiet? I have never said anything about these mysterious phone numbers, but I continue to run across them now and then, not real often but sometimes; and I am deeply saddened that he may still be trying to reach her after all this time. What would you do?....
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reader, bOy CrAzY;}  +, writes (30 March 2009):
Yes definitly confront him:) just to make sure anyway:)0
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