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Friends interferring with relationships

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Question - (30 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well, i like this girl with OCD, (whatever that means hehe) I have great feelings for her, yet my ex friend decided to put the poison down saying I cheated on her, which put some weird feelings into her, she isn't exactly avoiding me, but whenever she's on msn I feel what my ex-friend has done is wrong, should I not have ditched him as a friend? is he interfering with my relationships too much?

since the encounter I have managed to convince her i really like her, but she wont date me due to my ex-friend. how can i change this? is there any hope? did i do right for ditching my ex-friend as this has happened more than once, its happened 3 times :((

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009):

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ok so far i have one update, i have found that having ocd has nothing to do with it, she really likes me but she still thinks its not going to work i'm giving it time, she missed me after being offline for over a week i miss her to bits.....when i did ditch him as a friend it worked out alot better for me :)

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A male reader, funnyintit Ireland +, writes (30 March 2009):

funnyintit agony auntobviously is interfering too much, him saying that to her is a jealousy thing with you, depending on how close you are with your friend, he might fear he will loose your friendship to her...in a way your right to ditch him, but then again he's doing the right thing in a way..if you like the girl that much you wouldn't cheat on her!!! whats her having OCD got to do with this, if anything??? if you dont know what it means, its obsessive compulsive disorder!!!

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