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writes:Can some please give me some advice. I am living with my partner and we broke up on Saturday after a lot of fighting over stupid things. I am devastated and I don;t know what to do. We live together but I own the house. He is still there living on my couch as he has no where else to go. I don't want him to go and I have told him that but he said he has enough and wants out. Is there anything I can do to change his mind. I am afraid he will be gone by the time I get home today.Please some one help
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reader, SweetSerendipity  +, writes (30 March 2009):
I don't know the "frequency" of these fights over "stupid things", but if his response is "he's had enough", it sounds like these fights are just a tad too much or too often for his liking. If such is the case, then you need to "self reflect" and ask yourself "why do I allow these stupid little things blow into fights with him".
If you are worried that he would not be home tonight, why don't you call him now and tell him how sorry you are and that you'd like to work things out with him. If necessary, tell him that you are willing to go through counselling to get to the bottom of it, and thus giving your relationship another chance.
Good luck!
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