A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Before me and my boyfriend started dating, there were a few people I would flirt with through text messages. It never went any farther than texts. When me and boyfriend began dating, I didn't stop texting the people I used to flirt with, and 3 months into our relationship he found the text messages on my phone. He assumes that I cheated on him, although I didn't and I've told him that I haven't. We are still together 4 months later, and he wants me to make things better between us so that he can stop bringing up the text messages. I don't know how he wants me to make it up to him, all that he will say is "You'll figure it out." What do I need to do to?
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (30 March 2009):
Cut all ties with the people who you used to txt! Change your number and don't give it out to anyone other than people who are close friends and family. Reassure him that you are sorry and that you have realised how stupid you have been. Tell him that if you could go back and change what you did then you would and assure him that it won't happen again because you value your relationship too much to lose him! X
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