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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello...I am married woman with 1 kid. Before, I am too much in love with my husband, to much to the point of giving up most of my dreams just for the sake of marrying him.Just to know in the end that he was not in love with me but with his first GF-and i've heard over his acceptance regarding this issue to his friend.This hurt me so much that i decided to go other country and work as an Overseas Filipino Worker. Along the way, ive met one man and i fell in love with him. We are already in a 3 year forbidden relationship.The problem is i dont have the guts to get a divorce and also he was destined to be married soon in an arranged married culture.My husband now, was so sorry and was trying to win me back. I want to forget him, try to bring back the love i have for my husband, and just try to work our marriage together but it's so difficult coz my heart is telling otherwise now and also my husband and i were both far from each other. The man with me here is telling me that he just need to get married just for the sake of giving up to his parents wishes...But still he will be for me since his wife will be left at home and him working here with me as Overseas Filipino Workers also.Any advise there how can i forget somebody i love but the relationship is going nowhere?And how can i divert my attention and bring back my feeling to my husband. Plssssssssss....
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (3 April 2009):
 cheating is wrong so i would suggest you not persue this "forbidden relationship" any further. If things between you and your husband are ever going to work then you have to be near him, you either have to go back home or get him to come to where you are. it cant be fixed if theres so much distence between you.
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